Right after our honeymoon ended, my husband said it was time for me to learn “the rules of being a wife.” I calmly changed into my boxing clothes and gloves.

Right after our honeymoon ended, my husband said it was time for me to learn “the rules of being a wife.” I calmly changed into my boxing clothes and gloves.
“Perfect timing. I need a training partner.”

Three hours after we returned from Hawaii, my suitcase still sat beside the bed, filled with bright dresses, sunscreen, and photographs of us pretending to be happy. During the trip, Derek had criticized my clothes, corrected the way I spoke to waiters, and repeatedly asked about my finances. I kept telling myself he was insecure.