My mother-in-law sent me a box of chocolates while my husband was away and asked in a voice far too sweet, “Have you tried them yet, Valerie?” I told her I had given them to my sister-in-law for her baby shower… and her face went white. “Tell me she didn’t eat them!” she screamed. That night, the police knocked on my door with a question that tore the family in two.

The officer’s question left me colder than the clear plastic bag holding the box of chocolates. “Did your mother-in-law know you were going to give those chocolates away?” I didn’t immediately understand why that mattered so much. I was still stuck on the name Hector printed as the sender, and the absurd idea that my husband, from Detroit, could appear on a shipping label that had arrived at my door with a card written as if it were from Martha.