At my own 70th birthday dinner, my son set a bowl of dog food in front of me and laughed, “That’s all you deserve now, Mom.”

Society has a terrible, fatal habit of confusing age with weakness. They look at
silver hair and see a target. They look at a woman who moves with the careful,
measured steps of someone who has spent seven decades carrying the weight of the
world, and they assume her mind has slowed to match her gait. They look at a
lifetime of agonizing hard work, of blood and sacrifice and ruthless corporate
survival, and they see nothing but a bank account waiting to be cracked open.