I never mentioned to my eight-year-old daughter’s school that I was a sitting judge. To the administration, I was just a quiet single mother they could easily brush aside—until I showed up early for pickup and found Chloe locked inside a pitch-black supply closet, sobbing next to gallon jugs of industrial cleaning chemicals.

I never mentioned to my eight-year-old daughter’s school that I was a sitting judge. To the administration, I was just a quiet single mother they could easily brush aside—until I showed up early for pickup and found Chloe locked inside a pitch-black supply closet, sobbing next to gallon jugs of industrial cleaning chemicals.
I thought I was protecting my daughter by keeping my professional identity a secret. I thought I was giving her a normal childhood, free from the intimidation and false friendships that came with being known as a federal judge’s daughter.