My daughter saw her d3ad mother’s old ledger and burst out laughing: “You paid for everything, there can’t be anything in there.” Then she threw it in the trash right in front of me.

“Throw it away, Dad. Mom never had any real money.”
My daughter, Valeria, said those words less than four hours after we buried her mother.

I was seventy years old and had just returned from the funeral of Lucía, my wife of forty-three years.

Downstairs, our home in Lomas de Chapultepec was still filled with relatives, business associates, and acquaintances offering condolences.