My daughter abandoned her autistic son 11 years ago. I raised him alone. At 16, he created an app worth $3.2 million. Then his mother returned with her lawyer, demanding her son’s money. I panicked. Our lawyer said, “We could lose.” But my nephew calmly whispered, “Let her talk.”

He was sitting next to me in the lawyer’s office, wearing his usual gray hoodie, his headphones hanging around his neck, and his hands resting still on his knees. When our lawyer said, “We could lose,” I felt the blood drain from my face. I looked at Laura, my daughter—so put-together, so perfumed, so self-assured, with that high-priced lawyer in the fine suit by her side—and for a moment, I felt like that exhausted woman again, the one who scrubbed floors for strangers just to pay for therapy and notebooks.