At 3 a.m., shivering with an infection in my remaining kidney, I called the mother whose life I saved with my kidney, only for her to laugh, “I’m boarding a flight to Paris for your sister’s birthday, stop being so needy,” before hanging up. She still expects my $6,000 monthly support and access to the accounts funding her retirement life. Hours later, she landed in Paris, I received dozens of missed calls.

“Elena, I am not joking! They’re taking my bags! Sophie is crying! Call the bank and tell them it was a mistake!”

“It wasn’t a mistake, Margaret,” I said, using her first name for the first time in my life. It felt like breaking a spell. “You told me I was a parasite on your happiness. You told me you didn’t have time for my ‘wilted lily’ routine while I was lying on the floor in kidney failure. So, I took your advice. I removed the ‘negativity’ from your life. I removed myself. And since I am the one who pays for the cards, the clothes, the flights, and the very air you breathe… I decided to stop the supply. You wanted to be free? Congratulations. You’re free.”