My dad “forgot” to book me a room on our family trip. Front desk said: “No reservation for you.” My parents looked away. My sister mocked, “We just reserved rooms for real family only.” I calmly said, “Then I’ll leave,” and walked out. One hour later, after ignoring 45 missed calls… of their calls, something unthinkable happened.

In that moment, I realized that for my family, I wasn’t a person. I was a bug in their code—something to be patched out or deleted so the interface looked better for the “investors.”