My ex-wife’s drunken new husband brutally broke both of my 9-year-old son’s arms. When the ER called me, I rushed in to find him smiling by the vending machines. “Your kid is a weak coward. He deserves to die,” he sneered, reeking of whiskey. I didn’t scream or cry. I stared into his eyes and whispered, “Meet me in the parking lot.” Exactly 5 minutes later, he sobbed on the concrete, begged for forgiveness.

At the emergency custody hearing an hour later, the stale air of the courtroom smelled of old carpet and burnt coffee. Josie’s lawyer attempted to paint the situation as a tragic accident exacerbated by a bitter ex-husband. But when the judge asked Josie if she opposed temporary full custody, she looked at the empty chair beside me—where Jacob should have been—and finally broke. She surrendered without a fight.