At 6 a.m., my unemployed sister dumped her suitcases in my apartment and announced, “I’m moving in.” Minutes later, my mother called to double my rent so I could help support her. Certain I had nowhere else to go, they laughed when I said I’d move out. Three days later, my sister was sleeping on an air mattress, and my parents were begging me to come back.

He pointed toward the kitchen exit. He was bluffing—or so he thought. He knew I liked “steady.” He knew I hated scenes. He thought my reliability was a shackle he had forged and only he could unlock.