My six-year-old daughter came home hungry and in tears after my mother told her, “Real family eats first. If there’s anything left, you can have it.” For five years, I paid for every grocery bill my parents and siblings had, never asking for a cent back. Then one night, I didn’t argue. I made one phone call. By evening, the same relatives who mocked my child were begging me not to cut them off.

I turned to Emma, who was watching me with wide, wondering eyes. She had a piece of turkey halfway to her mouth.