My six-year-old daughter came home hungry and in tears after my mother told her, “Real family eats first. If there’s anything left, you can have it.” For five years, I paid for every grocery bill my parents and siblings had, never asking for a cent back. Then one night, I didn’t argue. I made one phone call. By evening, the same relatives who mocked my child were begging me not to cut them off.

I looked at my mother, who was currently complaining about the quality of the “free” gardener the trust provided. I looked at Mark, who was checking his gold watch.

I typed back: Completely certain. Do it now.

Done, Michael replied. All accounts frozen. All standing orders canceled. Outgoing wire transfers for the mortgage and tuition have been recalled as ‘unauthorized.’ Documentation of non-payment is being sent to the creditors as we speak.