At my 65th birthday dinner, my daughter-in-law knocked my cake into the dirt and sneered, “Oops, my elbow slipped.” Instead of crying, I grabbed her $50,000 designer handbag and tossed it into the barbecue. My son exploded with rage as her handbag burned. I thought we were even until the next morning, a called with shocking news hidden inside the melted handbag.

She flushed. “That’s not the point. The point is, this house is too big for you. If you sell it now, we can all benefit. I could really use four hundred thousand pesos to clear my mortgage. It’s only fair. It’s what Mom would have wanted.”

The mention of Elena’s name from her mouth felt like a physical blow.