Fifteen minutes before my wedding, I found my parents tucked behind a marble pillar on two flimsy plastic chairs, while my fiancé’s rich relatives sat proudly in the front row like honored royalty. My mother held my hand and whispered, “Please don’t let this destroy your day.” But in that moment, something inside me went cold. I walked to the stage, picked up the microphone, and smiled at the entire room.

The air in the Grand Biltmore Hotel bridal suite smelled overwhelmingly of white roses and expensive hairspray, a suffocating combination that had been making me slightly nauseous since seven that morning. I stared at my reflection in the gilded floor-to-ceiling mirror. The woman looking back at me was draped in ten thousand dollars of French silk and Alençon lace, her hair pinned into a flawless, architecturally impossible chignon. She looked like a woman who had won the lottery. She looked like a woman about to marry into the formidable Sterling family.