I asked my son-in-law to turn down the music because I felt like my head was splitting in two. He raised his beer, laughed with his friends, and yelled at me, “This is my house, you crazy old woman; if you don’t like it, there’s the door.” My daughter looked down. I looked down too. But not to cry—instead, to open my purse and pull out the paper I had been waiting 23 days for.

Danielle gave her statement. It wasn’t pretty. It wasn’t heroic. It was filled with shame, pauses, and tears. She admitted she signed without reading because Ryan pressured her. She admitted she heard the insults. She admitted he spoke about the house as if I were a piece of old furniture. She handed over messages where Ryan told her: “Your mom won’t last long on her own.” “An appraisal will sort it out.” “If she goes crazy, we’ll just say she’s not well anymore.”