I asked my son-in-law to turn down the music because I felt like my head was splitting in two. He raised his beer, laughed with his friends, and yelled at me, “This is my house, you crazy old woman; if you don’t like it, there’s the door.” My daughter looked down. I looked down too. But not to cry—instead, to open my purse and pull out the paper I had been waiting 23 days for.

Ryan crossed the threshold. Before stepping out, he turned around. “You’re going to regret this, Patricia.” The officer took a step forward. “Sir.” Ryan shut his mouth and walked out.

Danielle stood at the entrance, her purse in her hand. She looked at me the way she used to when she was a little girl and broke a vase. But she wasn’t a little girl anymore. “Mom, I don’t know what to do.” “I do,” I said. “Tonight, you can go with him if you want. But he is never stepping foot in here again until a judge says so or I allow it. And I am not going to allow it.” “He’s my husband.” “And I’m your mother. That didn’t stop you from signing as a witness.”