My husband left my dad’s funeral to go to Miami with his mistress. At 3:00 in the morning, I received a text from the dead man: “Honey, come to the cemetery right now… and don’t trust Richard.” I was still dressed in black, with dirt from the burial clinging to my shoes. He was toasting on the beach. And my dad had just called me from the grave.

“Give me the box,” he said. “I thought you were in Miami.”

He smiled joylessly. “And I thought you were more obedient.”

The word disgusted me. Obedient. That was how he had always wanted me. As a wife. As a daughter. As a signature.