At a family party, while I chatted, my husband slipped into the bedroom with his first love. I pretended not to see. 3 minutes later, I turned on the living room projector, linked to the bedroom camera. He was still at it, his family paled!

“The person you owe that apology to,” I said without looking back, “is the girl I used to be. The one who broke her own back trying to be worthy of this family.”