My brother came over to “shower for a few days” with his wife and two daughters because their water had been shut off, but by the ninth day, they were using my pantry, my living room, and even my gas as if I were their live-in maid. I didn’t make a scene. The night I turned off the water heater and served unsweetened coffee, my niece said in front of everyone: “Dad said that as soon as Auntie signs, this house is going to be ours.”

Rafael tried to come back several times. First with flowers. Then with his mother. Then crying. He never made it past the front door. I went down to the gate once. “Alma, I made a mistake.” “It wasn’t a mistake. It was a plan.” “My dad pressured me.” “And you pressured me in silence. That counts, too.” He asked if I didn’t love him anymore. It hurt, because a part of me still remembered the man who brought me tacos after work. But that man had also signed papers to put my roof at risk. “Loving you doesn’t obligate me to let you in,” I said.