Before I got married, my mom forced me to put my $3 million apartment in her name. She told me: “Don’t say a word to Tyler or his family.” I thought she was crazy. Until my mother-in-law took the microphone in front of 200 guests and announced that my place in Manhattan would be her retirement home.

Gertrude stared at him like she had been betrayed. “Oh, so now it’s my fault? You’re the one who said Sophia was easy to handle!”

The ballroom erupted into chaotic whispers. I felt something inside me snap silently.

Handle. Not love. Not a wife. Not a partner. Handle.