Just after getting divorced after 12 years of marriage, I agreed to care for a company president who could not move his legs for $35,000 dollars a month. On my first night, while I was washing him in his private area, he whispered, “Close the door. I need to show you something.” I did, phone in hand… and what he moved in front of me explained why he no longer trusted his own family.

But that woman was dead. Living with Florence and Christopher had taught me invaluable, painful lessons. It taught me how to spot a narcissist from a mile away. It taught me how to stay perfectly quiet, how to blend into the wallpaper, and how to survive in a hostile, toxic environment while secretly gathering intelligence.