During my divorce hearing, my husband leaned over and said, “Choose one of our three sons. I’ll take the other two.” Our boys laughed behind him like it was some kind of joke. I reached for my daughter’s hand and simply said, “None.” Richard’s pen slipped from his fingers, his face turning completely pale, just as the judge slammed his gavel and called for the bailiff to secure the courtroom.

The morning of the mediation, Ethan confronted Richard in the lobby of the law firm. Caleb later recounted the scene to me, his voice still shaking at the memory.