My eight-year-old nephew didn’t leave his mom’s casket during the entire wake and kept repeating: “Don’t cover her yet… she told me to wait for the sound.” Everyone thought the boy was in shock… until, near midnight, something began to vibrate inside the dress they had laid my sister to rest in.

By the time the patrol car arrived, Omar had recovered part of his act. He claimed we were hysterical, that the boy was traumatized, and that I was trying to create a scandal out of poorly handled grief. But the phone was in my hand, the flash drive was in my blouse pocket, and half the family had already heard the recording. An officer requested to halt the closing of the casket until the District Attorney’s office arrived.