During breakfast, my sister acted as if my credit card were already hers. When I refused, she threw hot coffee in my face, and my family still tried to make me feel guilty for saying “no.” Six weeks later, when I had already blocked my credit history with fraud alerts, my phone exploded with desperate messages: they had finally discovered what happens when the person who always fixed their disasters stops doing so.

“I am not putting my name on a loan for you. No card, no co-signing, no signature, nothing.”

Mrs. Lupita turned off the stove with a bit too much force. “Seb, don’t be like that. She’s your sister.”

“Exactly why I’m saying no.”