After a drunk driver took my husband and both of my children, I stood trembling in the hospital parking lot and called my parents, barely able to keep the phone in my hand. My father listened in silence, then said, “It’s Jessica’s birthday today. We can’t come.”

Then twelve.

We paid for funerals, grief counseling, therapy for surviving siblings, scholarships, music programs, and Noah’s Dinosaur Library.

Children began calling themselves Bennett Bears.

Emma would have loved that.

One year after the accident, I stood beside their graves with the foundation’s first annual report in my hands.