My daughter-in-law decided to put me on a live broadcast as if I were the maid in my own house. The worst part wasn’t her mockery, but the laugh from my son Derek, who was sitting in the living room as if I were no longer his mother, but part of the service staff.

At first, I believed it was temporary.

I set up the guest room for them. I cleared out space in the closet. I bought the specific coffee Tara liked, even though to me it tasted like perfume. I did what any mother does when her son knocks on the door looking exhausted: I opened it.