Before opening my coffee shop, my dad forced me to register the brand in my sick aunt’s name. He told me: “Don’t say anything to Steve, not even if he promises to help you.” I thought cancer was clouding his judgment. That was until my husband took the microphone on opening day and announced that the business would bear his family’s last name.

“since when were you planning this?” i asked, looking at steve.

he let out a slow breath, like someone tired of pretending. “mariana, understand something. i know how to grow a business. you know how to make coffee; i know how to make it profitable.” i felt a bitter laugh stuck in my chest. how easy it is for some men to minimize a woman’s work right after living off of it.