My husband came home beaming with pride, bragging that he had just handed his entire paycheck to his mother and rented her a new apartment. I gave him a tight smile and simply asked: “That’s fantastic… so what are you planning to eat tomorrow, and where exactly are you sleeping tonight?” He chuckled, convinced I was making a joke. Then, I dropped a folder onto the dining table. The moment he read the first page, the grin vanished from his face.

But that man hadn’t stuck around. He was around long enough to get his foot in the door, but not long enough to keep his hands clean.