My seventy-six-year-old husband demanded I kick out my ten-year-old son because he needed “peace and quiet.” So, I packed the bags. He actually believed I would choose him. My little boy heard every word from the staircase of our Westchester home. And that evening, when Richard came back from his Manhattan law firm, he found his legacy sitting by the door like a death sentence.

“Mom?”

“Yes, sweetheart?”

“Did Richard leave because I did something bad?”

I sat on the edge of the mattress and took his small hands in mine. “No. Richard left because he wanted to enforce terms and conditions where there should have only been love. And when someone truly, genuinely loves you, they never ask you to shrink or disappear.”