I got pregnant by a married man, and my baby was born with Down syndrome. When I wrote to his wife, I thought she was coming to rip my face off… but she arrived with a manila folder and a truth that left me breathless.

And Sarah completely broke. She didn’t wail. She just folded in on herself, weeping silently, her finger anchored by my son’s tiny hand.

“I’m so sorry,” she gasped. “For what?” “Because when I read your Facebook message, for a split second, I despised you. I looked at Leo’s picture and thought: Another one. Another woman. Another mess. But then I saw his eyes… and I knew David was going to try and make him disappear, too.”