My mother shrieked, “I’m not your ATM!” in front of half the restaurant just because I asked for help with a leaky roof… so the very next day, I severed the secret monthly allowance I’d been funding for years, and watched their entire world collapse.

“I just want you to live with what you actually have.”

The relief vanished. “What does that mean?” my mother asked.

“That it’s over.”

Silence.

“What is over?” she insisted.

“The money. The help. The invisible backup. Everything.”

Harper shook her head. “You can’t do that.”