The anniversary table was set with fine china for everyone except me. Mom gave me a plastic plate, pointed to a seat in the back, and whispered, “You know your place, hon.”

The anniversary table was arranged with elegant china for everyone but me. Mom handed me a plastic plate, pointed toward a seat near the back, and whispered, “You know your place, hon.” I did not respond. I simply put the plate down, picked up the envelope I had brought, and walked quietly toward my car.
My parents’ fiftieth-anniversary celebration took place in a private ballroom at the Fairmont in San Francisco, the kind of room where the chandeliers seemed to shine more brightly than the guests beneath them.