I showed up at my son’s wedding. He blocked the church door and said — “you weren’t invited, mom.” I didn’t scream. I didn’t beg. I just said 7 words — okay. But check your phone later, sweetheart. “You weren’t invited, Mom.”

General manager Luis Ortega greeted us in my office. He had stood beside me since my first restaurant and had never mistaken my quietness for weakness.

“The staff heard what happened,” he said. “They’re ready to cancel everything.”

“No,” I replied. “The cooks, servers, and vendors did nothing wrong. Pay every one of them. Let the reception continue.”