“Stay there and think about what you’ve done,” my father said while Mom called it “a necessary lesson.” I was eight weeks pregnant, and instead of listening to me, they shut me away downstairs and left for a week-long trip to Hawaii.

“Maybe she knew you were stronger than you thought.”

I shook my head.

“I’m tired of everyone telling women they’re strong after putting them through terrible things.”

He went quiet.

“That’s fair.”

“You don’t have to turn everything into a lesson.”

“Also fair.”

“Sometimes something awful is just awful.”