My husband came home proudly announcing that he had given his entire paycheck to his mother and had rented her an apartment. I smiled and simply asked, “Excellent… so what are you going to eat tomorrow, and where are you going to sleep tonight?” He laughed, thinking I was joking. Then, I dropped a folder on the table. And when he read the first page, the smile died on his lips.

“I’m renting a room in the city,” he said quietly. “That’s good.” “I pay for it myself.” “I’m glad.” “I’m going to therapy.” I nodded. “I’m glad for that, too.”