My eight-year-old nephew didn’t leave his mother’s casket for the entire wake, repeating over and over: “Don’t close it yet… she told me to wait for the sound.” Everyone thought the boy was just in shock… until, right around midnight, something started vibrating inside the dress they had put on my sister.

The legal process was agonizingly long. Longer than any family should have to endure. There were postponed hearings, neighbors who suddenly “weren’t sure” what they heard, and defense lawyers trying to drag Rachel’s reputation through the mud. Marcus lost weight in county jail, grew a thick beard, and learned to look at the judge with the sad, repentant eyes of a victim.