At my own 70th birthday dinner, my son set a bowl of dog food in front of me and laughed, “That’s all you deserve now, Mom.”

Kelsey lowered her phone, though I could still see the recording running.

“She’s been having episodes,” she told the guests. “Derek has been protecting her.”

That story had been carefully prepared.

Six months earlier, Derek started telling relatives I forgot appointments and misplaced money.

He convinced my longtime physician’s temporary office manager to print portions of my medical chart, then attached them to a petition asking for emergency control over my property.