After I paid nearly everything for my sister’s wedding, she stood in front of our relatives and tore my invitation in half. “You’ll only ruin my perfect day,” my parents clapped in agreement.

But paying the venue did not magically reset the entire day.

Some vendors scrambled to return.

Some services had already been disrupted.

The timetable was damaged.

The event Ashley had designed for a year was no longer operating under the same structure.