AT 38, I’D GIVEN UP ON FINDING “THE RIGHT MAN.” SO I MARRIED A QUIET SINGLE DAD. HE LIVED WITH HIS 8-YEAR-OLD SON IN A MODEST RENTAL. 3 DAYS AFTER OUR WEDDING, HE HANDED ME A DEBIT CARD. “WHATEVER YOU NEED TO BUY, USE THIS.” AT THE BANK, THE TELLER ASKED TO SEE MY ID. THEN SHE LEANED CLOSER AND WHISPERED, “YOU REALLY DIDN’T KNOW?”

The bank teller’s smile disappeared the instant she swiped the card my husband had given me. Then she checked my driver’s license, leaned over the marble counter, and whispered, “You really didn’t know who you married?”
Three days earlier, I had become Mrs. Daniel Mercer.

At thirty-eight, I had long stopped believing in dramatic romance. I had dated ambitious men who lied beautifully, wealthy men who treated waiters like furniture, and one surgeon who proposed while secretly still married.