ON DAY 3 OF MY MARRIAGE TO A ‘RICH’ MAN, MY MIL BROUGHT RELATIVES TO SET RULES AND TORE UP MY WEDDING PHOTO. I SNAPPED AND FLIPPED THE TABLE! MY HUSBAND FROZE IN HORROR: ‘MOM, DO YOU KNOW WHO SHE IS?’

My father had taught me one rule about money: never confuse love with surrendering the roof above your head or the signature beside your name.