I came home early from Christmas dinner and found my daughter’s bed empty. Then I heard my husband—35 years older than me—whisper from the living room, “Your mother still isn’t supposed to know about this.”

For a while, the family divided their time between Boston and New York.

Eventually, Julian moved his architectural practice permanently to Massachusetts.

And for the first time since she was nineteen, Clara began asking herself a question she hadn’t allowed herself to consider in years.

What did she want?