My daughter-in-law laughed when she gave me a $2 scratch-off for my 73rd birthday. 10 months later, my own son shoved a senior living brochure in front of me and said, “We already picked your room.” They thought I was too old to fight back. They had no idea what I had been hiding.

My sister Helen visited most afternoons.

We sat in rocking chairs on the porch, drinking sweet tea and watching neighborhood dogs pass.

For the first time in nearly a decade, I wasn’t watching the clock, worrying about groceries, school pickups, or dry cleaning.