My daughter abandoned her autistic son 11 years ago. I raised him alone. At 16, he created an app worth $3.2 million. Then his mother returned with her lawyer, demanding her son’s money. I panicked. Our lawyer said, “We could lose.” But my nephew whispered calmly: “Let her talk.”

Matthew didn’t even blink.

He was sitting next to me in the lawyer’s office, in his usual gray hoodie, headphones hanging around his neck, and his hands perfectly still on his knees. When our lawyer said “we could lose,” I felt the blood drain to my feet. I looked at Lauren, my daughter, so dressed up, so perfumed, so sure of herself, with that fine-suited lawyer by her side, and for a moment I felt again like the tired woman who scrubbed other people’s floors to pay for therapies and notebooks.