My parents spent $2,300 on Easter gifts for my sister’s kids. I paid $60 for my daughter’s coloring book. Still in the drugstore bag, my 8-year-old looked up at me and whispered, “Mommy, did I do something wrong?” I knelt down, held her face, and said, “No, baby, but Grandma and Grandpa just did.” What I did the next morning, they never saw coming.

Martha reached out to touch my arm, her eyes filling with a performative, watery grief. “Sarah, please, we’re family… Lily loves us… we can make this right. We’ll buy her the Jeep! We’ll buy two!”