Minutes before our wedding, I saw my fiancée kick my mother’s cane away and send her crashing to the floor. I caught Mom in my arms and shouted, “Are you insane?” My bride straightened her veil and snapped, “She fell on her own. Don’t ruin my day.” I looked at the guests, then at the woman I almost married. “The wedding is canceled,” I said—and she had no idea what I planned to take from her next.

They expected me to panic. They expected me to start a public shouting match that they could win with their superior PR machine.