Days after my major spinal surgery, Mom called and whispered, “I hope you understand why we couldn’t be there.” With tears in my eyes, I replied, “I understand perfectly. My sister’s party mattered more to you!”

The room seemed to tilt.

I grabbed the papers and scanned the official text beneath the dim fluorescent lights.

There it was.

A durable power of attorney bearing a signature that looked disturbingly like mine.

Except I had never signed it.