Days after my major spinal surgery, Mom called and whispered, “I hope you understand why we couldn’t be there.” With tears in my eyes, I replied, “I understand perfectly. My sister’s party mattered more to you!”

This time, it wasn’t Aunt Sarah.

It was my mother and Chloe.

Their faces were flushed as they rushed inside wearing exaggerated expressions of panic and concern.

“Clara! Oh, thank goodness you’re awake!” my mother cried, hurrying toward the bed with both arms stretched out. “We rushed over the second we heard you had a complication! We’ve been beside ourselves with worry all weekend!”