My mother-in-law arranged a dinner at an exclusive restaurant, but when I arrived there was no seat reserved for me; she smirked: “Maybe a budget place suits you better!”

Whispered comments.

Brunch invitations sent to everyone except the person being discussed.

She was Dian’s logistics officer, and she had spent the month quietly campaigning.

I learned about it sideways.

That’s how you learn most things in families built on omission.

Brad, Whitney’s husband, had begun appearing at Keystone events.